Why everyone is not successful in life? Lets found out !

              Reasons : Why you are not successful

Every glorious  goal  comes  with  a  dream  ,where  that  dream  comes  with  a  imagination  and it is set in foundation  with a  well  start , strong will, endeavor ,  ( hard + smart work), a  great  plan  and  the  consistency  of   'karma'  which  is  finally  gold  touched  with great  patience  and  faith.

   Always Remember The Following Lines

• ''Don't  chase the success  ....... Let the success chase you ''
• ''Don't   copy anyone ....... Let everybody copy you
• '' Don't   complain .......... just explain ''
• ' Don't   fear  .........just  remember the almighty ,dear!''
• AND posses  the dare to get the rare; and make every body stare  

 Here are some of the strong reasons that affect your success and hinder the  destiny . These things are avoided by successful people  at any cost for the shake of archiving their goals.These are viz.-

1. PROCRASTINATION

                                       

  Many of us are not unaware of the fact that procrastination is the thief of time ; in fact not only time but also of the destiny. procrastination involves avoiding doing work and sitting like a cozy cat ,who doesn't care of what he had to do.

You cannot rely on long-term consequences and rewards to motivate the Present Self. Instead, you have to find a way to move future rewards and punishments into the present moment. You have to make the future consequences become present consequences.

 Such a attitude is very harmful. Ensure that  in the race of archiving your goal never ever  quit or postpone anything just for shake of a lazy mood  which could give some comfort for a little time but can ruin your life time.

2. LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM

 

 Each and every one of us have self-esteem. Self-esteem is made up of the thoughts we have about ourselves and plays a role in almost everything we do.

Having healthy self-esteem is really important as it helps you make positive choices in your everyday life, gives you the courage to be your own person, have good relationships and helps you deal with difficult situations.

Did you know that 87% of those who have been bullied felt it had a negative effect on their self-esteem…

Low self-esteem can have harmful effects on your mental health, your decisions about your appearance and ultimately, your future.

  3. SELF IMPOSED LIMITATIONS

Self-imposed limitations are shackles that hold us down and prevent us from achieving our potential. When a person sets a limit, he or she puts a limit on what is achievable. That person will never evolve beyond the arbitrary standard set for him or her. People never evolve beyond their self-imposed standards, even if they are fully capable. This wouldn't be so much of an issue if people regularly set their limits high - but most do the opposite and set their sights far too low.

 

Limitations and Self Image

 

Self-imposed limitations are tied to a person's self image. The lower the self image, the lower the expectations the person has for himself or herself. Until that self image improves, until that person believes he or she will be successful or is capable of more, then he or she will continually under perform no matter what program diet or  plan is followed.

 

4. CREATIVE, BUT UNFOCUSED MIND

 

''extra creative mind is completely unfocused.''

Constraints nurture productive side of the creative mind.  At first it might seem as though complete freedom makes all creative ventures more attainable, but this isn’t the truth.  Complete freedom makes the possibilities endless, but keeps your efforts scattered and unfocused.

Often, self-imposed constraints, or boundaries, force you to think differently about challenges, leading to more practical ideas and innovations. 

 Instead of thinking ‘outside the box’ and looking in every possible direction, get inside one box – a specific problem that needs a resolution, a smaller space where big changes can be made, etc. – and focus your creative attention on making a difference.

5. A WRONG CREW

   As proclaimed by - Jim   “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”

  Who are the people you spend most time with?  they elevate you or bring your moral down? Are they proactive personalities exhibiting qualities that you admire or they are just a bunch of  failures who just sit and criticize others?  they help or drain you?

The good thing about being around positive minded individuals, who have a habit of chasing their destiny and  have faith in taking responsibility  of their lives, is that you to will be inclined to go in a correct direction as well.

They will have an impact on your thinking and consequently your behavior. They will support you on your journey and move you towards inspired action.

It is pretty good that you spend with these people.........

6. HARD WORK

Hard work is something with out which nothing could be archived. Every successful person holds a painful story  . Thinking of success without working hard for it is like expecting a fruit without actually planting a tree,

Success  never  comes before  hard  work  , not even in dictionary ! .

Hard work ALWAYS accomplishes something.  . You could build something.    You could change something.  But had work always gets results.  It has been said “Some people dream of success… while others wake up and worked hard at it.”  Laziness doesn’t yeild anything but wastage of  time and resources occurs.  Do you want to see something  great happen?  Work hard until you get it right . As president Abraham Lincoln   told us “Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle.” 

 ''failure is not fatal and success is not final it is the courage to stand up and break the ice.

 ''Wishing your success in life ''

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